Relationships

Relationships

Yes, the thing which everyone has a different view on. A lot of people don’t even have a definite view on it, and I don’t either. This is a touchy issue with most people especially teens. Heart breaking often is just about the norm in a teen’s life.

Now a lot of people are starting young with relationships. I know someone who had her first boyfriend when she was seven. This is dangerous, I believe. Relationships are getting too common and binding like they should be. Some 5 year old already have a ‘bf/gf’.  The heart is a tricky thing. The more it gets broken, the less it can give winding up into broken marriages.

Another thing is that the younger you start or are, the easy for the relationship to either send you into pre-martial sex etc. Without the experience of a life and good principles, it is easy and with a constant string of relationships and shows of affection, it is even easier.  I am a teenager so I know the pressure of the world that you HAVE to have a relationship. But in the words of Mr. Smith, my Bible teacher, “That is a lie straight from Hell.”

And finally, we should never get with someone who is not a Christian. Missionary dating does not work. It is dangerous because eventually, if we fall in love with the person, we will rationalize marrying them.

Keep in mind you standard and never, no never compromise. 

PS Sorry about the delay in posting.